Intro
00:00:00Relying on others for your happiness means surrendering control to factors beyond your reach. Recognizing the power of personal intent and manifestation transforms vulnerability into self-empowerment. Embracing this mindset shifts focus from external validation to building fulfillment from within.
“I think I manifested this interview…”
00:00:26Manifesting a Serendipitous Opportunity A long-held desire to connect became reality through a series of unexpected events that felt guided by the universe. A spontaneous interaction confirmed that waiting and trusting the timing of fate can open doors to meaningful conversations. The meeting emerged naturally after expressing a genuine wish to share impactful stories, validating the power of manifested intentions.
Embracing Vulnerability and Self-Care The dialogue highlighted the strength found in openly discussing mental health and personal challenges. Authenticity shone through as both parties celebrated vulnerability as a foundation for growth and self-improvement. Practical self-care practices, from cold plunges to reflection and journaling, underscored a commitment to becoming the best version of oneself.
Fostering Genuine Connections A spontaneous and flowing interaction revealed the beauty of forming bonds rooted in mutual admiration and shared values. The conversation underscored that genuine connection arises when individuals are open, curious, and willing to support each other’s journeys. A heartfelt exchange of respect and appreciation set the stage for relationships that extend beyond superficial encounters.
Pursuing Purposeful Growth and Impact The exchange evolved into a celebration of living with intention and the continuous pursuit of personal evolution. A commitment to sharing uplifting tips and real experiences reinforced a purpose beyond self-promotion. The dialogue served as a reminder that meaningful impact comes from connecting with like-minded individuals and using personal insights to inspire health and well-being.
“I grew up in a horse community.”
00:09:53A Timeless Bond with Majestic Horses Growing up in a community where horses were more prevalent than houses forged a deep, almost mystical connection with them. Their majestic presence and wordless communication evoke memories of past lifetimes and a pure, childlike wonder. Every quiet moment shared with a horse feels spiritual and profoundly moving.
A Grand Proposal Amid Equine Magic and Global Reverence An elaborate proposal in London, complete with acapella serenades, flowing bouquets, and a romantic horse carriage ride, unfolded with an unexpected twist when an allergy cast a bittersweet shadow over the moment. The magical yet emotional experience underscored the enchanting power of horses despite life's surprises. Cross-cultural journeys in India and Rwanda further deepened the admiration for animals—from the therapeutic nature of horses to the revered presence of cows and gorillas.
Foundations of Discipline and Discovery Through Early Animal Work Early ventures as a dog walker and newspaper deliverer instilled a strong sense of discipline and a drive to work passionately with animals. Long days filled with riding, grooming, and simply being near horses nurtured both responsibility and an enduring joy for nature's company. These formative experiences laid the groundwork for a lifelong dedication to the care and understanding of animals.
Craving the simple things
00:15:42Foundations of Solitary Joy Childhood was defined by a love for quiet moments—long hours playing video games, exploring virtual worlds, and enjoying time with horses brought effortless contentment. A natural inclination for solitude set a clear contrast to more outgoing siblings, fostering a dependable sense of self-worth. Even when everyday life demanded social engagement and busy routines, the simplicity of solitary pleasures remained a cherished source of inner peace.
Balanced Success: Passion and Simplicity A dynamic career intertwined with vibrant social interactions did not overshadow the importance of personal, reflective rituals. Days marked by horseback rides, family moments, and calming practices like journaling underscored a profound gratitude for life’s blend of excitement and solitude. This harmonious balance highlighted the insight that true fulfillment emerges when passion at work coexists with the serene, unadorned joys of simple living.
Setting boundaries for yourself
00:18:51A young aspiration to build a modeling career began at fourteen and evolved through a decade of relentless pursuit, marked by unwavering determination. The journey, while filled with remarkable achievements, also entailed overwhelming work and a habitual tendency to say yes, draining personal happiness. A turning point came in the early twenties when the insight to set clear boundaries emerged, prioritizing personal well-being without sacrificing passion. This mindful decision to balance ambition with self-care ultimately brought a renewed sense of joy and enabled more fulfilling interactions with others.
Putting yourself first
00:21:46Courage to Prioritize Self Over Success In a fiercely competitive field where relentless pressure threatened personal identity, a realization emerged: preserving oneself required the courage to say 'no.' Facing the brink of burnout, choosing to decline further demands became an act of self-respect despite warnings that success depended on endless work. Prioritizing well-being over unyielding expectations redefined success as a balance between ambition and authenticity.
Reclaiming Joy Through Self-Care and Passion Reclaimed time opened the door to a transformative journey of self-care and rediscovered joy. Embracing practices like meditation, therapy, and celebrating small moments revived a long-overlooked sense of fulfillment. Reconnecting with cherished passions, such as horse riding, affirmed that personal happiness can coexist with professional drive, paving the way for genuine well-being.
It’s important to be happy
00:27:15Happiness is achieved by cultivating a resilient inner strength that remains unshaken by external influences. Embracing a higher self or goddess empowers one to secure joy independently of others' actions. Self-affirmations, mirror reflections, and reassuring words reinforce inherent worth, dispelling false narratives. Even when setbacks occur, unwavering self-belief propels the continual pursuit of inner fulfillment.
Reassuring yourself of who you really are
00:28:51Embracing a Multifaceted Identity External judgments often feel unfair, yet a deep sense of self reminds us of the richness beyond surface impressions. A nature-inspired exercise reveals that initial perceptions can be misleading, uncovering hidden softness and complexity much like the unexpected qualities of a leaf. Timeless wisdom underscores that our identity is not solely what we think or what others assume, but a layered interplay of internal self-awareness and imagined external validation.
Building Genuine Connections Through Honest Communication Authentic relationships flourish when honesty and clear communication form the foundation for mutual understanding. Recognizing the multifaceted nature of both ourselves and others allows for deeper, more nuanced connections that go beyond superficial labels. Embracing honest dialogue and empathetic engagement enables us to nurture trust and resilience in our most valued bonds.
Sometimes, family can be overwhelming
00:33:06Family gatherings can trigger overwhelming anxiety, making it essential to pause and breathe to regain balance. Simple self-care offers validation for intense emotions without requiring elaborate practices. A heartfelt tribute to Virgil underscores the deep connection felt when losing influential figures during challenging times. The reflections reveal how personal overwhelm intertwines with the profound impact of losing cherished, luminous souls.
Losing a dear friend
00:35:54Shared Loss and Unconditional Generosity A profound loss brings both a deep ache of regret and a comforting sense of shared human emotion. The memory of a friend who embraced life with relentless generosity and gratitude lingers, even in the shadow of severe illness. His willingness to give, whether designing a simple pencil or offering heartfelt thanks, left an indelible mark on everyone he encountered. The collective mourning is interwoven with admiration for a spirit that chose love and service above all.
Transforming Grief into Lifelong Purpose Recounting the virtues of those departed fuels a resilient determination to live with purpose and embody extraordinary kindness. The inspirational legacy of an individual revered for touching countless lives motivates a journey of continual self-discovery and growth. Reflecting on such profound examples clarifies the desire to live fully and honor the indelible impact left behind. The evolving path of personal purpose is a testament to the enduring beauty of a life well-shared.
Finding a new purpose
00:40:53From Business Ambition to a Mission of Joy The personal journey evolves from a focus on corporate success to nurturing an inner connection with a higher divine self. Embracing the inner goddess becomes a guiding force, inspiring the creation of daily content meant to uplift and bring smiles. The transformation centers on using social media as a platform to share love, positivity, and the belief that every life is given a special purpose.
Transforming Negativity Through Self-Love A conscious shift in mindset encourages breaking the cycle of negativity by fostering self-compassion and inner reflection. Emphasizing the practice of recognizing personal strengths, the narrative illustrates how a positive self-image radiates kindness toward others. Integrating inner child work and daily affirmations, the approach redefines personal narratives, reminding individuals to see the good both in themselves and the world.
Stop being mean to your inner child
00:45:38Cherishing Childhood Innocence to Quiet the Inner Critic Deep in a memorabilia closet, an unexpected childhood polaroid of a little girl with a bow and a radiant smile materializes, symbolizing pure self-acceptance. Displayed on a bathroom mirror, this treasured image transforms moments of harsh self-criticism into quiet reminders to nurture inner love. The photo serves as a grounding beacon that turns negative self-talk into affirmation, honoring the gentle inner child.
Uniting Through Vulnerability and Shared Humanity An honest exploration of personal feelings reveals that all individuals navigate similar challenges despite differing backgrounds. Embracing vulnerability fosters deeper connections, as the heartfelt narrative shows that minimizing self-judgment leads to greater empathy for others. This shared understanding of human emotions underlines that practicing self-compassion can bridge diverse experiences with kindness and authenticity.
Kendall on Final Five
00:50:24Embracing Meditation and Inner Calm A spontaneous retreat with friends in the woods sparked a deep curiosity for meditation and mindful breathing exercises reminiscent of Michael Singer’s approach. This journey into self-reflection led to immersive moments of solitude and a commitment to exploring inner peace. The experience also involved setting personal boundaries and letting go of the need to control what cannot be managed.
Unleashing Creative Freedom and Authentic Living The narrative celebrates the liberation of founding a company and creating one's own imaginative space free from external validation. Establishing 818 brought opportunities to learn about culture, creativity, and personal passion while rejecting the need for constant approval. An inventive law is proposed that mandates regular phone-free time to foster balance and authentic self-connection.