Jaya Kishori - Krishna, Mantra Aur Detachment - AJIO Presents TRSH 165

Pre-Determined Relationships "Marriages are pre-decided." A person meets you for a reason, whether it's for marriage or to teach you a lesson. Every relationship betrays at least once, except for true love.

Deep Conversations with Jaya Kishori Jaya Kishori has achieved success in her career and life. In this episode, we delve into the knowledge she has gained through spiritual conversations.

"When I started my journey, I faced many problems and realized that it's important to explain things in a simple way. Whether you're six or sixty years old, everyone should be able to understand."

Katha started her work at an early age. At the age of 12, she had her first recital. Initially, she didn't understand much because reciting requires listening to others who are more experienced. As she began learning scriptures like Shrimad Bhagvat and Geeta ji, Katha realized the importance of simplifying complex concepts so that everyone can understand them.

King Parikshit, born in the dynasty of Pandavas, was cursed by a saint to die within seven days. This curse was given because he insulted the saint. However, it is believed that his actions were influenced by Kalyug dominating him at that time. The curse was actually given by the son of the saint and not directly by the saint himself. This story teaches us that even when we make mistakes, if we have lived our lives well and done good deeds, people will blame our circumstances rather than blaming us as individuals.

We all make mistakes in life, as we are humans and not Gods. These mistakes can happen while talking or in our work. It is a part of learning and growing. One important lesson I have learned is to stop saying things that I cannot follow myself. For example, promoting piousness without living a pious lifestyle would be hypocritical.

To maintain a satvik lifestyle, it is important to surround yourself with positive influences. This includes being mindful of the thoughts you entertain and the content you consume on the internet. Avoid negativity and overthinking by choosing what brings positivity into your life. It is crucial to have good company that aligns with your mindset and goals for personal growth.

The internal vices we reject, such as vindictive thoughts and emotions like anger, jealousy, and greed, are more significant than external vices. Learning detachment is a way to overcome these vindictive traits by not letting them consume us. Detachment means being in between everything without allowing it to control our emotions.

The Importance of Controlling Anger Controlling anger is a crucial aspect of personal growth and spiritual development. College students and teenagers often realize this late, but the sooner they learn to control their anger, the more it will positively influence their mindset. Spirituality plays a significant role in teaching individuals how to manage their emotions by promoting meditation as a means to balance thoughts and calm the mind.

"Now" is the Time for Spiritual Growth 'Later' may not be advantageous when it comes to understanding and embracing spirituality. The competitive nature of college life can make it challenging for students to prioritize spiritual growth amidst struggles or rejections. Instead, one should recognize that youth is an ideal time for exploring spirituality since older age may limit opportunities for experiencing life fully.

Spiritual Growth Enhances Decision Making & Relationships Embracing spirituality leads to improved decision-making skills and healthier relationships with others. Detachment becomes a natural outcome of practicing spirituality regularly.

Detachment: The Lotus in Water "Detachment" refers to the concept of being like a lotus flower that remains untouched by water. Just as water never touches the lotus, we should not let ourselves be affected by external circumstances. We can fulfill our roles and responsibilities while recognizing that everything around us is temporary and not true.

"The World is a Lie" 'The world' as we perceive it is an illusion. It may seem real with its luxuries, entertainment, and relationships, but ultimately it will all fade away. Even love in this worldly sense is transient and deceptive.

"I wouldn't say lie. I would say if there's a selfish reason it's a lie." Every relationship betrays you at least once in your life, except for Him.

During the podcast, the speaker transforms into a different person on stage, exhibiting power and energy. This transformation is similar to what happens with sportsmen during games. The reason behind this change is not fully understood but may be related to spiritual growth or being in a special place called Vyasa Peeta.

Avesham: The Goal of Tantra "Avesham" is a tantric goal where one's body becomes united with the energy of the deity they worship, such as Lord Krishna. This state is achieved through intense practice and devotion. While it may take a long time for some to attain Avesham, those who publicly discuss matters related to God can experience a micro version of this on stage.

"Love" in Devotion In devotion, love holds greater significance than knowledge. Udhav ji from Shrimad Bhagvat was highly knowledgeable but lacked understanding of love until he learned it from the Gopis' selfless love for Lord Krishna. When God starts loving you and your devotion towards Him deepens, He bestows upon you qualities similar to His own - be it faith, power or knowledge.

Growing Devotion Through Satsang and Scriptures Devotion grows when we learn about God through satsang (spiritual discourse) and scriptures. By gaining knowledge about His actions and behavior, our love for Him increases gradually over time. Reading stories like that of King Parikshit's seven-day immersion in listening to Sukhdev ji's narration made him develop an immense longing for union with God.

Devotion to Goddess Kali "Kali Maa की पूजा both have taken an early Mahasamadhi in their lives. I know this, I don’t know how true that is."

Kalighat Temple and its Power "Kalighat is a famous temple in Bengal where devotees perform Pooja with all the rituals. It is believed that natural calamities do not occur in Bengal because of the presence of Goddess Kali's power at Kalighat."

The Fierce Form of Goddess Kali "Goddess Kali was worshipped by Lord Shiva and known for her fierce nature. She had the ability to transform into different forms like Saraswati or Durga based on the situation."

Existential Crisis Ranveer is feeling existential and questioning the purpose of his actions. Despite career success, he feels disconnected personally.

Lack of Excitement "Love is the answer" but Ranveer doesn't feel excited about upcoming trips or achievements. He just wants to rest and do nothing.

Shoulder injury can lead to various problems, forcing you to rest. Every injury or illness is an opportunity for learning something about yourself. You have the answers to your questions within you, but it may take time to understand them. Others can offer their experiences and insights, but ultimately, only you can put together the puzzle of your own life.

When COVID hit and lockdown was announced, all my planned projects were canceled. It was a big change for me as I had never spent so much time at home before. However, during this time, I did something unexpected that taught me the value of making the most out of every situation.

- Many people watched the last episode and gave positive feedback - People found answers to their questions and solutions to their problems - The podcast helped clarify confusion and provide direction

Ajio presents Keep It Casual 'Ajio presents Keep It Casual' is a relaxed segment where Jaya Kishori answers questions and engages in casual conversation.

"Keep Learning" - The Key Value [Jaya Kishori's] key value for her child would be to keep learning, regardless of winning or losing.

Favorite Gods and Their Significance Jaya Kishori shares that she believes in Shyam Baba, Radha ji, Shiv ji because they represent love, the end (bringing change), and power respectively. She also talks about the significance of Lord Krishna's name on her life.

Understanding the Truth of Life and Death Jaya Kishori reflects on the tough phase in her life when she had to confront the truth of death. She found solace in Satsang, Bhajan, God, and scriptures. Through a story about Gautam Buddha, she emphasizes that death is inevitable and we should not waste today's time worrying about tomorrow.

Society's Fear of Death 'Why does society hate death so much?' Jaya Kishori believes it stems from shattered expectations and attachments with loved ones. The uncertainty surrounding death disrupts our idealized world where relationships last forever. She encourages embracing detachment while cherishing moments spent together.

Misconceptions About Jaya Kishori Contrary to popular belief, Jaya Kishori does not consider herself a saint or someone who has renounced everything. Instead, she sees herself as an ordinary person dedicated to her work with sacrifices made along the way.

Dreams as Guidance The speaker believes that dreams have meaning and can provide guidance in life. They share their experience of learning from dreams, such as interpreting a dream about falling as a sign of going wrong somewhere. Dreams serve as answers to confusions and offer direction when one goes astray.

"Lord Shiva" Dream The speaker recalls having a significant dream where they saw Lord Shiva while chanting his name. Initially unsure if it was meaningful, the presence of Lord Shiva reassured them that they were on the right path. This dream affirmed their belief that dreams are not random but messages from God.

While traveling as a child, our vehicle broke down near a jungle. We found shelter in a small garage where I felt something strange. Although I don't remember it clearly and think it may have been my imagination, I prefer not to talk about it.

The speaker expresses their interest in astrology, despite not believing in it. They are intrigued by how astrologers can predict and explain things based on horoscopes. They want to learn more about astrology to understand how the moon and sun affect their life.

The Desire for Happiness "People get married to be happier. When you share your happiness with someone, it becomes even better. Having a family can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and provide companionship."

Creating a Sense of Belonging "Starting a new family after one ends may also be driven by the desire to never feel alone. By having another family, individuals ensure they always have people around them."

Personal Choices and Life Decisions "Deciding whether or not to get married, have kids, or start a family is an individual choice that varies from person to person."

Marriages are believed to be pre-decided, with people meeting each other for a reason. Whether it's through love or arranged marriage, the individuals we meet have a purpose - either to marry us or teach us valuable lessons.

Mantras hold power in every religion and ancient languages. Chanting a mantra deeply connects you to its essence. The Gayatri Mantra has been significant for the speaker since childhood, leading them to explore other mantras as well. They chant multiple mantras but their main one is 'Om Namah Shivay,' which they believe should be chanted with devotion and focus for accomplishment.

The Power of Chanting Shiv's Mantra Chanting the name of God, specifically Shiva, can lead to success even if you don't know its meaning. The mantra holds immense power in Kalyug.

'Om' as a Form of Meditation 'Om' is another form of meditation that can be practiced by chanting it multiple times. It has a pronounced effect on the mind and body.

Benefits of Chanting Om - Chanting Om has a minimum requirement of three repetitions, but the number can vary. - Proper chanting involves pronouncing it with rhythm and volume. - The vibrations of the mantra can be transferred to water for consumption. - Other chants include Krishna's name and Goddess Durga's chant.

- Sticking to one mantra is important for accomplishment. - Trust in your chosen routine is crucial; exploring new mantras may not be necessary at this time.

- Devotion requires trust in mantras. Without trust, desired accomplishments may not be achieved. The speaker recently discovered a hymn that has had a profound impact on them during this phase.

Understanding Bajrang Baan -Bajrang Baan is a hymn similar to Hanuman Chalisa, but it serves as a challenge for Lord Hanuman. -It can be used when you need immediate help from Hanuman. -Listening to Bajrang Baan has personal benefits such as increased mental strength and detachment.

Exploring Tantric Mantras -Tantric mantras contain words with different frequencies that have the power to bring about changes in life. -Hrim is compared to an arrow that carries the energy of the mantra. The podcast on tantra provides insights into these mantras and their effects on people's lives.

The Desire for Direct Answers "I want direct answers," says the speaker, expressing a desire to connect with divine power without relying on dreams or situations. They believe that this may be the next step in their spiritual journey and are intrigued by Tantra as a means of achieving fast spiritual progress.

The Risks of Quick Success The speaker acknowledges that quick success can lead to negative emotional states such as ego and superiority. They caution against taking shortcuts in spirituality, emphasizing the importance of patience and humility in one's journey.

Gratitude and Invitation The hosts express gratitude to the guest for joining the podcast and invite her to return in the future. They also thank the listeners for their support.

'Difficult Phases' Podcasting "Recording this episode was not easy due to challenges in life, but doing these podcasts during difficult times is enjoyable." The host's vibe changed throughout recording, and they hope that listeners will enjoy today's episode as much as previous ones.

Announcement: Jaya Kishori Returning on TRS Jaya Kishori will be returning on TRS soon. Listeners are invited to suggest topics for discussion with her through comments. Ajio app is recommended for similar styling featured in this look.

English Podcasts Recommendation 'TRS' encourages listeners to explore English podcasts alongside Hindi ones, highlighting that some conversations are equally great in both languages. They promise a variety of excellent episodes available across different languages.